I was looking at two people I somehow knew to be Bri (my wife that separated from me that I’m still very much in love with) and Avi (her boyfriend) in some kind of sky-tram thing very far away, not together but close, over a foggy forest in the mountains. I guess they were in separate cars. One end of Bri’s car must have come off the lines so that it was only hanging by two wheels. Somehow she was able to swing over to Avi’s car but didn’t quite make the landing. Avi and her try to grab hands on the way by but they’re just out of reach, and then catches the edge of the floor with one hand but not the other and it’s barely even enough to slow her down a little and she falls... probably 500ft, almost assuredly to her death. Unless by some miracle she hit enough tree branches on the way down but... she’s almost definitely dead. All this while I’m too far away even to hear her scream. I felt so helpless. There was nothing I could do because she was so far from me. The obvious symbology here doesn’t make any sense, because in real life she’s already very close to him in almost every sense and in a stable albeit not old relationship of 4 months. She’s spent whole weekends with him, so it would make more sense for her to already be in the same team with him? Maybe she was…. That part of the dream is fuzzy I think more because of my memory and less because of the dream itself
Dreams often symbolize our innermost emotions, fears, and hopes, even when they lack logical coherence. Your dream seems to reflect a deep emotional turmoil and feelings of helplessness concerning your current relationship situation with your wife, Bri, and her new partner, Avi.
Sky-Tram and Distance: The sky-tram and the foggy environment suggest feelings of being in an unclear or uncertain situation. Being “very far away” might represent the emotional distance you feel between you and Bri since your separation. This distance highlights your sense of helplessness in the circumstances, as you’re unable to influence what’s happening because they're “too far away.”
Bri and Avi in Separate Cars: Though they’re close in the dream, them being in separate cars could symbolize your hope or belief that even though Bri is with Avi, she might not be entirely one with him in every aspect. It reflects your observation or possibly your inner wish that they aren’t as emotionally or physically inseparable as they seem.
Bri’s Car Coming Off the Lines: This represents instability or danger, likely referring to your subconscious fears about Bri’s well-being or state of mind. You may worry if the choices she has made are as stable as they appear or if there might be unseen risks in her new path.
Attempted Connection with Avi: The attempt to reach out and connect symbolizes the efforts both Bri and Avi might be making to foster or maintain their relationship. However, their inability to securely grab hands suggests your perception that there’s a potential for failure in their connection.
Bri’s Fall and Your Helplessness: Her fall symbolizes your greatest fear—losing her entirely or fearing the consequences of her choices may lead to her unhappiness or downfall. Your inability to act or intervene represents feeling powerless, not only in her personal decisions but concerning the outcome of your relationship with her as well.
Miracle References (saving branches): The hope that falling branches might soften her fall could reflect your underlying wish for a miracle that might bring Bri back to you or at least ensure her safety and happiness independently of her partnership with Avi.
Overall, this dream reveals deep-seated emotions about loss, helplessness, separation, and longing. The dream could be prompting you to introspect on how you cope with these feelings in your waking life, encourage you to process the grief of separation, and help initiate a journey towards healing, acceptance, or new beginnings.